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Post by Lorelei Warren on Oct 24, 2007 1:25:08 GMT
She watches him shurg,"Not happy with it?"
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Post by Ian Hunt on Oct 24, 2007 10:31:43 GMT
"I don't know. I guess, I am happy with her. But she's been pregnant twice before and lost both of them...and my daughter...is gone now. And...I'm just not too sure about the whole baby thing at the moment...or ever."
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Oct 26, 2007 0:09:38 GMT
"Understandable," She nods,"Two miscarriages is a lot for the two of you to go through, and to have another one. Truly a miracle."
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Post by Ian Hunt on Oct 26, 2007 19:29:42 GMT
"If that's what you want to call it," I reply.
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Oct 27, 2007 18:31:20 GMT
"Not one for being a parent, I'm guessing?"
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Post by Ian Hunt on Oct 28, 2007 15:51:03 GMT
"No, I fuck up a lot," I laugh slightly, without humour.
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Oct 28, 2007 20:03:15 GMT
"Unplanned pregnancy?"
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Post by Ian Hunt on Oct 28, 2007 20:09:41 GMT
"How'd you guess?" I mutter.
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Oct 28, 2007 20:13:14 GMT
"Because when they're planned the parent shows a bit of exictment," She says,"My younger cousin's having a baby in a couple months, she's freaking out, same way you are."
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Post by Ian Hunt on Oct 28, 2007 20:16:22 GMT
"My sympathies to her then," I reply.
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Oct 28, 2007 20:22:19 GMT
"I'll tell her next time I see her," She nods,"She's not one to freak out this much though, well she is but never seen her this scared before,"
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Post by Ian Hunt on Oct 28, 2007 20:51:11 GMT
"Yeah, don't blame her. It is fucking scary."
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Nov 1, 2007 23:17:08 GMT
"I'm sure she'll do fine. I think you will as well. Everyone freaks out about their first child."
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Post by Ian Hunt on Nov 2, 2007 12:20:11 GMT
"It's not my first."
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Nov 11, 2007 1:44:46 GMT
"Well then, you've got the upper hand on my cousin. First kid, according to her, it's twins. Poor girl."
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Post by Ian Hunt on Nov 11, 2007 15:23:49 GMT
"Twins? Yeah, ditto."
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Nov 12, 2007 16:05:15 GMT
"Wow, small world," Rory mutters, tucking a loose strand of hair back,"She's positivly terrified, guessing your pretty much the same?"
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Post by Ian Hunt on Nov 12, 2007 19:11:45 GMT
"No, actually...surprisingly," I admit, "More just generally dreading it."
And half planning an escape.
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Nov 13, 2007 23:43:25 GMT
"Not sure if you can handle it?" Rory guesses, raising an eyebrow,"She's the same way, thinking about whether she should put them up for adoption or not."
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Post by Ian Hunt on Nov 14, 2007 21:17:11 GMT
"Oh, no, I know I can't," I say wryly, "I have limited patience at best, especially with people who can't look after themselves, children fit that category."
I look down briefly at the mention of adoption, but decide not to say anything, "Oh."
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Nov 15, 2007 23:06:02 GMT
"Shouldn't second guess yourself, never know what you could do." She replies, setting her hands in her lap, fiddling with her napkin."Just breaks my heart seeing her like that, and I know it's breaking hers too. She just wants what's best for those two little boys of hers,"
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Post by Ian Hunt on Nov 16, 2007 20:32:42 GMT
"I think I know myself pretty well by now," I reply, then pause for a moment, "If it wouldn't be too intrusive, I'd suggest not going the adoption route. It usually doesn't end too well, or so personal experience tells me."
You're one to talk...
Just advice.
So it's okay to give people advice you have no intention of following yourself?
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Nov 17, 2007 2:04:55 GMT
"Yes, we're trying to convice her of that herself, says it's what her and her boyfriend want. It's all a bunch of bull if you ask me, god knows they don't want to give up those boys. They're just too scared to take on the responability."
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Post by Ian Hunt on Nov 17, 2007 15:07:39 GMT
"Well, it's what they think is best, when it comes down to it."
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Nov 17, 2007 20:30:23 GMT
"But it's not whats best for those boys."
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Post by Ian Hunt on Nov 18, 2007 16:54:25 GMT
"No, probably not."
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Nov 19, 2007 3:27:43 GMT
"A peice of advice," Rory starts,"Stop thinking about what's best. For you, for Maddie, for the babies, start thinking instead about what you really want. The rest will just come to you." She smiles slightly,"It's a pleasure finally meeting you Ian."
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Post by Ian Hunt on Nov 20, 2007 19:57:18 GMT
"Was wondering when we'd finally acknowledge that," I mutter, "Pleasure to meet you too."
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Post by Lorelei Warren on Nov 21, 2007 0:47:25 GMT
"Pretty amazed we kept it going that long," She grins slightly.
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Post by Ian Hunt on Nov 21, 2007 20:44:25 GMT
"Quite impressive," I grin weakly.
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